You don’t have to change your personality in order to find love. However, you do need to let this other person into your heart. You need to give them a chance to see the real, unfiltered version of you or there will always be an emotional barrier between you stopping you from making the mot of your relationship. Here are some zodiacs who need to be more vulnerable to find their soulmate (and keep them):
Aries, you rarely let others into your heart because you’re trying to protect yourself. You don’t want to make yourself vulnerable and risk getting hurt — but the second you start to fall for someone, there’s always a chance you’re going to get hurt whether you open up or not. If this person feels like they’re worth the effort and seems trustworthy, then being vulnerable might be exactly what you need to do in order to deepen your connection. You don’t want to push the right person away because you’re scared to let them see the real you. If they’re the right person for you, then opening up about your hopes and fears and past is only going to make them love you more, not less.
Leo, you hold yourself with confidence and pride yourself on your honesty — but there are pieces of yourself you keep hidden from most of the world. You want everyone to see you as strong and capable, so you hide your most vulnerable qualities. And that’s perfectly fine — except when you get into a committed relationship. Once you open up your heart to someone, you have to open it all the way. You can’t be afraid to get vulnerable in front of them. The right person won’t run away. And if this person does run, you can rest assured that they weren’t the one for you after all. It’s better to learn that now than later.
Scorpio, your pessimistic nature makes it hard for you to open up to people since you’re worried they’re going to use what they’ve learned against you. But if you’re with the right person, they will treat your heart gently. They won’t judge. They won’t make you feel small when you’re speaking your truth. The only way you’re going to know whether you’re with the right person or whether you need to move on is by being completely upfront with them. Put all your cards on the table and see how they react, see how compatible you really are when you’re being the most authentic version of yourself. If you refuse to do this, you could push the right person away. Or you could end up with the wrong person for way too long.
Aquarius, it’s hard for you to open up about your feelings, but this is important in any serious relationship. You need to communicate with each other openly and honestly. If you can’t be honest with them, how can you expect them to be honest with you? Even though it’s scary to be vulnerable and let them into your heart, it’s the only way you will feel truly connected to each other. It’s the only way to keep your relationship strong. And if they’re wrong for you and make you feel worse after opening up, you can take it as your sign to move on and find someone who fits you much better.