January: Strive for progress, not perfection.
For those born in January, it’s their natural instinct to be their best selves all the time. Normally, that’s okay, but when you’ve had the year you’ve had, it’s a different story. Take this time to widen your perspective on what perfection means to you. At some point, you’ll realize that everything you’ve achieved this year has made you your best self, whether you see it or not. Give yourself some credit, babe; it is the terrible 20s.
February: Make sure the decisions you make impulsively are what you actually want.
People born in February are known to know what they want, especially if it can benefit them. However, always take a second to step back and make sure it is exactly what you need right now. Sure, success is an incredible achievement; however, make sure that success is something you’re proud of. The minds of February have a beautifully unique way of handling life’s challenges, so feeling comfortable where they are in life is essential for future growth.
March: Doubt kills more dreams than failure ever will.
For those born in March, it’s easy for them to feel down about themselves. They are sensitive, and they take the effort to make sure their words are crafted to their best ability. However, people born in March need to stop being so hard on themselves. When you start doubting your progress, that’s when you start to stall. Stop overanalyzing every move and go with the flow. You’re intelligent, and people look to you for inspiration, but at points, the pressure can get to your head.
April: If nothing is going right, turn left, but never around.
People born in April have been dealt a hand of cards that seems like a never-ending string of misses. However, they are unaware that the progress they have made along the way is one of the most important steps toward bettering their lives. Instead of hiding from things that make those born in April uncomfortable, they should embrace them. Sometimes, the path they take isn’t a straight road but more of a winding hill. With so many ups and downs in life, people born in April should know that their hesitation that comes with making themselves uncomfortable is natural, but stalling the process to make it more comfortable will slow their progress.
May: You’re the sole controller of your happiness.
People born in May are naturally kind hearted. Just like a spring bloom, those born in May are commonly linked to having traits of harmony, innocence, and love. When you’re pouring your emotions into other people’s cups, it’s normal for those born in May to need to take a step back. You need to take responsibility for healing the unloved places within yourself by accepting and internalizing the love you give others. The only way true healing and happiness can begin is by creating your own reality based on positive thoughts and emotions.
June: You can’t please them all, so don’t.
For people born in June, this was a year of balancing their boundaries with other people’s happiness. No matter what you do, there will always be people who are dissatisfied or unhappy with your actions. Instead, people born in June should focus on pleasing the people who matter most to them and let go of the idea that they need to make everyone happy. Using this, those born in June can save their minds from the stress and frustration of trying to please everyone and instead focus on doing what makes them and the people who matter to them happy. Make sure to strive to do your best and be true to yourself before filling other people’s cups.
July: Be mindful of how you approach others.
For those born in July, you have powerful energy over your loved ones. By being mindful, you also inspire others to be more mindful themselves, creating a positive ripple effect that can enhance the quality of life for everyone involved. People born in July should pay attention to their words and actions. By focusing on the present moment and being fully engaged in your interactions with your loved ones, you can strengthen your connection and deepen your sense of communication and emotions.
August: Your life doesn’t need to be planned down to the second.
People born in August like to have control over their lives in a number of different ways, but it is not necessary for your life to be planned out in minute detail; in fact, it is often better to leave room for flexibility and spontaneity. Planning is important for setting goals and achieving them, but it is also important to be able to adapt to unexpected changes and challenges. Those born in August should embrace the unknown and trust that life will unfold in its own unique way. By letting go of the need for strict control and perfection, you will find more joy and fulfillment in your journey.
September: Stop thinking about them.
For those born in September, it’s natural to have feelings of nostalgia about past loves. By focusing on those old memories, you hinder your ability to move on and find happiness in other areas of your life. It is important to let go of the past and focus on the present and future. Those born in September should focus on themselves and their own happiness rather than dwelling on the past. Sometimes, in pursuit of their attention, it can lead to unhealthy behavior, potentially damaging the relationship even further, along with your self-esteem.
October: Forgive and let go.
When someone does something to you that breaks your trust, those born in October begin to guard their minds from others.Those born in October need to see why forgiving is essential. By being able to forgive, we are able to release the negative emotions and focus on our own well-being. Forgiveness does not mean condoning the actions of others, but rather it is a choice to let go of our own pain and move forward in life. Without forgiveness, those born in October may continue to hold onto the hurt and bitterness, hindering their ability to heal and move forward in a healthy manner.
November: Living in the moment is great, but also look at the bigger picture.
Living in the moment allows those born in November to fully embrace their adventurous and spontaneous nature. They can take risks and follow their passions without worrying about the future. However, it is also important for them to look at the bigger picture. This allows them to plan and prepare for the future, ensuring that their actions align with their long-term goals and aspirations. It can also help them avoid making impulsive decisions that may not be in their best interests in the long run. By balancing their love of the present with a broader perspective, someone born in November can enjoy the best of both worlds.
December: Stop being so unreliable.
Those born in December need to know it’s time to ditch the flakiness and step up to the plate. Being unreliable doesn’t just make you look bad; it also affects those around you. Imagine missing out on a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity because you couldn’t be counted on to show up, or accidentally letting down a friend who needed your support. Yes, we’re all busy and have our own lives, but relationships require effort and commitment. So put in the effort and make your loved ones a priority.