You’re scared of commitment. You aren’t sure whether you’re ready to dedicate your life to someone else.
You don’t want to make a mistake. You don’t want to end up with the wrong person.
You’ve been having a good time. You don’t want things to change if they start to get too serious.
You’re terrified of trusting this person with your heart and then having it broken. You don’t want to look like a fool.
You’re worried your relationship is too good to be true. You’re worried you’re not seeing certain red flags.
You’ve been hurt in the past. You’re worried about there being a repeat in history.
You enjoy having options. If you take the next step with this person, that means you are going to be saying goodbye to your chance at another person.
You aren’t great at expressing your emotions. You’re scared of being vulnerable with someone else and giving them ammo to hurt you.
Your relationships never last long. You’re terrified it’s going to end soon after you take the next step.
You’re scared taking the next step is going to backfire on you in the end. You feel like you’re better off on your own because you can’t get hurt that way.
You aren’t great with relationships. You’re worried you’re going to be a bad girlfriend/boyfriend and let your person down.
You are happy with the way things are right now. You don’t want to change a thing.