{"id":3349,"date":"2022-02-12T22:55:21","date_gmt":"2022-02-12T22:55:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.zodiacheist.com\/?p=3349"},"modified":"2022-02-12T22:55:21","modified_gmt":"2022-02-12T22:55:21","slug":"dont-get-relationship-wrong-reasons","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.zodiacheist.com\/dont-get-relationship-wrong-reasons\/","title":{"rendered":"Don\u2019t Get Into A Relationship For The Wrong Reasons"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Don\u2019t get into a relationship because you feel pressured. Because you feel like everyone else is already settling down. Because you\u2019re getting older and you don\u2019t want to be alone for the rest of your life.<\/p>\n

You still have plenty of time to find the person who is meant for you. You should never rush into a relationship that feels wrong because you\u2019re worried you\u2019re never going to have another chance at love. Regardless of how high or low your self-esteem is at the moment, more than one person is going to love you throughout your lifetime. You\u2019re not confined to this\u00a0one<\/em>\u00a0shot at love.<\/p>\n

If this person doesn\u2019t feel right for you, that\u2019s okay. Don\u2019t trick yourself into believing your only choices are to date them or to spend the rest of your life alone. There are plenty of other options out there. This isn\u2019t your only chance to settle down.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get into a relationship because you feel guilty about turning this other person down. You might hate conflict. You might be a people pleaser. You might feel horrible about rejecting them. But you\u2019re going to hurt them even worse by agreeing to a relationship when you\u2019re not completely interested.<\/p>\n

Besides, you need to learn to respect\u00a0your own\u00a0<\/em>feelings. You shouldn\u2019t make them happy by sacrificing your own happiness. You shouldn\u2019t treat them as a priority while pushing your own needs to the back of your mind. You aren\u2019t selfish for making decisions that make\u00a0you\u00a0<\/em>happy. You\u2019re supposed to follow your heart, not\u00a0their<\/em>\u00a0heart.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get into a relationship with the wrong person because you desperately want to be loved. Because you want to be showered in attention. Because you want someone, anyone, to want you. You need to learn how to give\u00a0yourself<\/em>\u00a0the type of love and validation that you\u2019ve been craving. You need to work on raising your self-worth so you\u2019re not reliant on another person to make you feel valuable.<\/p>\n

Besides, even if you got into a relationship with this person, it wouldn\u2019t be enough. You wouldn\u2019t experience the same satisfaction a soulmate would give you. When you\u2019re with the wrong person, you might physically be in a room with someone, but you\u2019re still going to feel lonely. You need to hold out for someone who really speaks to you. You need to remain patient, even though it hurts.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get into a relationship because you feel pressured to leave the single life behind. It can get tiring watching everyone around you get engaged and married while you\u2019re still searching for what makes you happy. However, you need to remember that everyone moves at a different pace. You\u2019re not behind. You\u2019re not broken. You\u2019re not better or worse than the people who are at a completely different stage of their lives.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t pay attention to timelines because you\u2019re on a different journey than even your closest friends and family. You might reach certain milestones later than you intended, but that doesn\u2019t mean you\u2019re unlovable. Remember, a relationship status doesn\u2019t determine your worth. It doesn\u2019t determine whether you deserve to be happy.<\/p>