{"id":22181,"date":"2024-04-12T11:36:48","date_gmt":"2024-04-12T11:36:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.zodiacheist.com\/?p=22181"},"modified":"2024-04-12T17:54:21","modified_gmt":"2024-04-12T17:54:21","slug":"4-zodiacs-who-sabotage-their-own-love-lives","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.zodiacheist.com\/4-zodiacs-who-sabotage-their-own-love-lives\/","title":{"rendered":"4 Zodiacs Who Sabotage Their Own Love Lives"},"content":{"rendered":"
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GEMINI<\/h2>\n

Gemini is notorious for allowing their fear of commitment to destroy their love life. That fear stems from an even bigger one\u2014they\u2019re afraid to be vulnerable. This is why Gemini is such a chameleon, always adapting their personality to those around them. They project themselves how they want to be perceived around different people\u2014a different thing for each person. It\u2019s not so much a mask that Gemini puts on, as it is them deciding which sides of themselves they want to show and to who. By showcasing their many faces in this fashion, they\u2019re protecting themselves from ever being truly known.<\/p>\n

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The Twin isn\u2019t naturally comfortable with emotions and sensitivity. They\u2019re masters of shielding themselves from their true feelings. In romance, they have trouble getting closer on a deeper, more emotional level. Gemini will tell themselves that it\u2019s out of fear of being tied down or\u00a0feeling confined\u2014that they could be missing out on someone better out there by settling down. While this is true to some extent, Geminis just struggle with feeling exposed. So, they\u2019ll gravitate toward more casual types of relationships with shallow people who are \u201csafe.\u201d Gemini could never truly fall for someone without sustenance and depth\u2014they couldn\u2019t be hurt by this type of person either. Gemini also sabotages love by keeping their distance from those they feel a genuine connection with. Gemini tends to give too much of themselves away when in love, so they may fear being the sacrificial lamb like they have been in the past. This sign can push away a good thing for something that they know deep down could never emotionally fulfill them.<\/p>\n

CANCER<\/h2>\n

Cancer possibly has the most immense heart of all the zodiac. The Crab is afraid to be vulnerable because they have the capacity to be the most vulnerable of all the signs. No one desires \u201cthe one\u201d more than Cancer. They dream of a true future with someone (usually with marriage and family and all the work). It\u2019s important, no matter the goal in sight, for this sign to ultimately find a partner to build a home with. They have laid it all on the line and sacrificed it all in the name of love before. Cancer is generous in relationships, with a willingness to give and give and give. So, they often attract selfish and toxic partners\u2014people who only know how to take. Cancer has made many unhealthy compromises in the past in order to keep a relationship alive. When they fall for someone else again\u2014real love<\/i>\u2014they sabotage it out of fear of being at someone\u2019s mercy again. Typically, they self-destruct by cheating at the beginning of a beautiful romance, or by hurting the other person in an irrevocable way.<\/p>\n

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Cancer is also afraid to reveal their true self\u2014they struggle with deep insecurity. So, they hide a warm, soft creature behind a hard baddie facade. This sign constantly struggles with asking themselves if they\u2019re good enough. They\u2019re afraid that if they were to let someone else get too close, that person would see that they\u2019re not. Cancer fears abandonment after discovery, so they will retreat into their shells and hide from something good. In doing so, they keep the true intimacy they crave forever out of reach.<\/p>\n

VIRGO<\/h2>\n

Virgo has an inherent fear of love\u2014of the consequences of true vulnerability. Virgo would never admit that they want to be uncovered, but it\u2019s one of their greatest desires\u2014it\u2019s also one of their biggest fears. They constantly sabotage the possibility for two reasons\u2014they don\u2019t want anyone to see their weaknesses and they can\u2019t ever shake off the feeling that they need to protect themselves. Virgo would never want anyone to see how truly sensitive they are. Deep down, this sign struggles with feeling truly worthy and beautiful. They\u2019re extremely critical of others, but they\u2019re harshest on themselves. Virgo works tirelessly to keep their self-perceived flaws hidden, so they hide behind self-constructed walls. Beneath it all, Virgo is a delicate person with a tender heart.<\/p>\n

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Early on in romance, Virgo will try to suppress or rationalize away their feelings. When that doesn\u2019t work, they mentally set the expectation that their match can never disappoint them. They\u2019re quick to pounce on any excuse to not fully trust the other person\u2014to grasp onto anything that will prevent them from opening up. With Virgo, you\u2019re either with or against them. This sign constantly questions romance and relationships, overanalyzing and nitpicking away at their lover\u2019s words and actions. They wonder whether it\u2019s the right person, quick to nurture their doubt at every little fault and incapable of ever forgiving. Virgo just can\u2019t let themselves relax enough to enjoy being the object of someone\u2019s affection. To avoid getting hurt, they\u2019re constantly trying to be one step ahead of their significant other. The biggest imaginable pain for a Virgo is loving someone more than that person loves them.<\/p>\n

SCORPIO<\/h2>\n

Scorpio expects full transparency from others at all times, but never really shows their true face. This isn\u2019t to say that this sign is hypocritical or insincere, but that they protect themselves by never truly letting themselves be known. Peel back a layer, and find another couple hundred thousand underneath that one\u2014not that this Matryoshka doll would ever let you get past the first. Scorp is naturally distrusting and suspicious of others. When Scorpios allows themselves to open up, they don\u2019t do so lightly. This is because when they truly let someone in\u2014friend or lover\u2014they do so with the intention of having that person forever in their life. They\u2019re extremely selective and put serious thought into who they allow entering their lives.<\/p>\n

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It\u2019s all or nothing for a Scorpio. Their emotions are that way, too. No creature is as intense. Scorpios doesn\u2019t just feel love, they live for it\u2014it consumes them. When someone hurts them, they have an almost impossible time letting go of that betrayal or heartbreak. For this reason, they are often afraid to get close. Often, they hold their partners accountable for the mistakes of their exes. In love, they\u2019re constantly on guard waiting for the other shoe to drop. Scorpio pushes healthy, real love out of their life because of their fear of vulnerability. They test the other person to the point of breaking, without ever really giving them a chance to prove themselves. Scorpio refuses to ever give up power and control, and that\u2019s how loving another person makes them feel. They can\u2019t be helped in love\u2014they\u2019re driven by their passion (and paranoia). Many Scorpios can be in a relationship for years without ever truly giving their significant other the benefit of the doubt, or ever allowing themselves to be truly seen.<\/p>\n

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