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I\u2019ve been screwed over. You\u2019ve been screwed over. He\u2019s been screwed over, she\u2019s been screwed over, they\u2019ve been screwed over\u2014you get the point. Everyone has been screwed over, and to one extent or another, we all have trust issues. Your ex might have broken your heart, leaving you broken and alone. Your parents\u2019 divorce may have shattered your ability to trust that things will be okay. Friends coming and going may have destroyed your hope that friends are forever. Things happen in life, and we have no control over them, and this can be the development of our trust issues.<\/p>\n

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The hard truth is, sometimes you handle your trust issues with lots of difficulties. And each zodiac sign has something they absolutely do not want to hear about how they handle their trust issues. Buckle up, because we\u2019re going to go over exactly what you don\u2019t want but need to hear.<\/p>\n

Aries<\/b><\/h2>\n

As long as you don\u2019t think it\u2019s anything serious, you have no issues. When something starts getting serious, whether it\u2019s a friendship or a relationship, you turn to ice. You make everyone jump through hoops to earn your trust. Only if it\u2019s serious, though. If it\u2019s serious, then they have to bend over backward for you. How is that fair to them? How is that fair to you? You\u2019ve probably missed out on a lot of great people because you just can\u2019t seem to believe that someone will be serious in your life. How\u2019s that going for you? I doubt it\u2019s working out well.<\/p>\n

Taurus<\/h2>\n

I hate to be the one to break it to you, but things change. People change, and sometimes it\u2019s for themselves. They may not have any ulterior motive, but you just can\u2019t believe that, can you? You have to think about all the reasons things are changing. People in your life can change because they want to do it for THEMSELVES. It\u2019s their choice to change, and you have to suck it up and deal with it. It doesn\u2019t mean they\u2019re changing themselves to get rid of you; it doesn\u2019t mean they\u2019re doing it because they stopped caring about you. You\u2019re too stubborn to realize that sometimes changes can be good. Why can\u2019t you just accept that things are good sometimes? A change can make your, and someone else\u2019s life better. Stop questioning why and go along for the ride. It can strengthen your friendships and relationships.<\/p>\n

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Gemini<\/h2>\n

You\u2019re a whole ball of trust issues. Not everyone is going to be just like you, and that\u2019s a problem for you for some reason. The people in your life aren\u2019t too good for you, but you\u2019ll constantly believe that. And if they\u2019re just like you, you\u2019ll look for some reason not to trust them. Stop searching for the reason. You\u2019re destroying yourself and those around you when you\u2019re always looking for a reason not to trust them. Try trusting yourself first, then work on believing you\u2019re good enough. Hell, you\u2019re more than good enough, but why would you believe that when you\u2019re too busy looking for a reason not to trust someone else?<\/p>\n

Cancer<\/h2>\n

You take forever to trust someone. It has to build up, and then it finally happens and you take a nosedive into the shallow end. You go from nothing to everything in the blink of an eye. This is overwhelming to the people you\u2019re working on trusting and to yourself. You take no time before you get so attached that it\u2019s smothering. At first, yeah, you\u2019re going at the slowest pace known to man, and then suddenly someone is your entire world. Where\u2019s the thought behind this? Take it down a few notches, dial it back. You\u2019ll actually push people away BECAUSE you decided to take that leap. Let it build up at a rational pace\u2014life isn\u2019t all or nothing.<\/p>\n

Leo<\/h2>\n

You\u2019ve been hurt\u2014so has everyone else on this damn planet. You project being trusting and loving, but where is it actually? You let people in just enough that you won\u2019t get hurt again; everyone has to stay just far enough away, but just close enough. You have trust issues that never go away and see no reason to actually trust anyone. Instead of focusing so hard on the past where you were hurt, start thinking about the future. How long can you keep someone that far away before they decide to leave? You put yourself in this cycle of pain, and until you learn to let someone in, you\u2019ll keep repeating the cycle.<\/p>\n

Virgo<\/h2>\n

Not everyone is trying to screw you over. Not everyone on this planet is out to get you. Not everyone has some hidden motive for trying to be in your life. Why do you keep questioning it? You have trust issues, and you\u2019ve been hurt repeatedly. It does hurt, but you keep taking that same hurt out on everyone else. Your issues get projected onto the next person that comes into your life, and you just need to step back, take a look, and realize that you really are lovable. You deserve it, and you\u2019re capable of it. If you spend your entire life believing there has to be a motivation for someone to care about you, you\u2019ll be the one missing out. Try to stop overanalyzing every word or movement the people in your life make\u2014it will make you and them feel better, and your friendships and relationships will strengthen. Take a breather from thinking so much.<\/p>\n

Libra<\/h2>\n

We\u2019ve all trusted the wrong person before. It doesn\u2019t mean your entire life will come to an end by trusting the wrong person. Maybe you have before, and it did go disastrously. Let yourself heal from that. You\u2019re putting so much weight on your decision to trust people, and sometimes you\u2019ll make the wrong decision. Sometimes the decision will be to distrust the wrong person, and that can make your life difficult, too. You\u2019re always making a pros and cons list when it comes to trusting others, and sometimes, just sometimes, it makes you seem like an a*s. People can feel your distrust\u2014you make statements that aren\u2019t exactly true, and you might feel ridiculous in the end. If you quit putting so much thought into it and just enjoy the current time, your life can improve.<\/p>