How can you finally get your toxic ex out of your head? You’d think it would be easy to get over a toxic relationship with someone who has done too much to make you suffer, but it doesn’t turn out to be easy.
Often the mind plays tricks on us, making it difficult for us to see the full picture of our toxic relationship. It is easy to be manipulated and deceived. Your ex may also want you back, expecting you to forget everything bad. But how can you forget that your friend manipulated you? Cheated on you x times? Treated you like garbage? Gave you a cold blood removal?
You actually go into a state of deprivation when you come out of a broken relationship, it’s not easy at all. And since everything was not bad with him in the past, you are particularly vulnerable.
Maybe it’s the lack of closure that often happens with the breakup of a bad relationship. The anger continues to flow and lets you relive the events, reminding you of the cruel words and actions that hurt you. Each zodiac sign has its own reasons why it doesn’t work so well with processing …
1st Aries (March 21 – April 19)
You’re still upset that someone had the courage to actually treat you like shit. You’re usually someone who doesn’t like to tolerate other people’s crap. And you hate the fact that you let this one smart person into your life. You are definitely not over the fact that you have allowed someone to mistreat you and abuse you in this way.
2nd bull (April 20 – May 21)
As a bull, you are simply not known for being someone who is so keen to let things go. You have trouble letting go of the past. You are definitely not the type of person who would be easily forgiven and forgotten. You are a very passionate individual. And sometimes your passion can fuel your hatred and contempt for another person.
3rd twins (May 22 – June 21)
As ruthless and vengeful as you are, you really have problems with your toxic ex. As twins, you are not done with them yet. Yes, you broke up with them. But you’re still really focused on getting them to regret the fact that they hurt you. You don’t want them to get away with it so easily.
4th Cancer (June 22nd – July 22nd)
You still have a few light feelings for your toxic ex. You can’t help it. As a cancer, you just have trouble separating yourself from people you love. Even if you know that they are bad and toxic, you cannot easily detach them. That’s why you can’t get your ex out of your head yet.
5th lion (July 23 – August 22)
It’s pretty obvious that you have a huge social media presence. As a lion, you live from social interactions – and this applies especially to social media platforms. That’s why you can’t get your ex out of your head. You are always exposed to everything they report about and what they do with their lives through your social media feeds.
6th Virgin (August 23 – September 22)
Your exs are still obsessed with you, so you can’t shake them out of your head. They don’t want to leave you alone. They are still annoying you and pestering you to get back together. It looks like they’re not done with you yet, even though you’re done with them. You want to go on so desperately, but they won’t let you.
7th Libra (September 23 – October 22)
You just find that your thoughts naturally linger towards your ex whenever you feel lonely. As a Libra, you are a very social being. You always want to surround yourself with people. And whenever you are alone, you don’t really know what to do with yourself. That’s why you end up thinking about your ex.
8th Scorpio (October 23 – November 22)
You are still obsessed with your relationship. As a scorpion, you are not really known for being someone who overcomes things quickly and easily. You’re still brooding over every single detail of your failed romance because you want to find out why everything went wrong. And that’s why you still have thoughts about your toxic ex from time to time.
9th Sagittarius (November 23 – December 21)
Your ex just keeps writing you drunk messages. And you no longer know what to do about it. You are so sorry for all the unwanted attention. You are just desperate to go on with your life, but he won’t let you. You want to go on your adventures, but he still wants to keep you up to date.
Capricorn (December 22 – January 20)
It is the emotional baggage that you are still trying to search that makes it difficult for you to erase it from your head. As an ibex, you have the tendency to simply dive straight into your work. And during the process, you ignore the feelings that you hold in yourself. This may be the reason that you cannot continue and get over your toxic ex.
11. Aquarius (January 21 – February 18)
You don’t really like telling others a lot about your private life. And that’s why people still ask you about your ex. They didn’t even notice that you already broke up. That is why you are constantly reminded of your separation. People in your life are still asking you about it all the time.
12.Fishes (February 19 – March 20)
You have a few random dreams about your ex. You don’t really try to think of him all day long. But when you sleep at night, your subconscious seems to drift naturally to your ex’s pictures. And it confuses you because you don’t know what your dreams are trying to tell you.
I want to remind you that if someone else hurts you or doesn’t see how unique and beautiful you are, it’s their problem, not yours. Love yourself, be proud of what you are. You have lived through a storm and you have survived and survived it. This requires bravery, tenacity and courage. You will survive this and you can find peace in your life again.