Ever wondered why you can’t seem to figure out if you’re just a quick detour or the ultimate destination in his life? Let’s face it; men can be as cryptic as the last season of a murder mystery, right? But what if I told you there’s a way to decipher these codes?
When an Aries is in for the long haul, they’ll start letting you take the reins sometimes. These individuals are notorious control freaks, always wanting to call the shots. But, love has a way of softening even the most stubborn Aries. So, if he’s letting you pick the movie for movie night or is asking your opinion on his future plans, congratulations! You’re not just a passing amusement; you’re entering partnership territory.
Taurus’s main mantra in life is comfort is key. When your special someone is letting you into their safe spaces, that’s how you’ll know you’re in it for the long run. When you enter their hime, and they’re greeting you with their coziest cuddle gear, and a charcuterie board – you’re in it for the long haul.
Geminis, right? Can’t live with ’em, can’t… well, actually, we kinda can’t live without ’em. They’re charming, they’re charismatic, but they can also be a tad cagey. So, if your Gemini guy is letting you in on his deep, dark secrets, you’re clearly not just another notch on his bedpost. The day a Gemini lets you see his shadow is the day you know he’s in this for more than just a fling.
Cancer men are all about home and heart. So if he’s opening his home to you, and I mean more than just the bedroom… if he’s sharing his mom’s secret lasagna recipe or has a toothbrush ready for you, with some new soaps, well… let’s just say he’s got more than a fling on his mind.
A Leo in love is like a sunflower turning towards the sun – they can’t help but revolve around the object of their affection. If he’s constantly showering you with affection and can’t seem to keep his hands off you (not just in the spicy way but in the tender, loving way), then you’re not just a summer fling to him. You’re his sun.
Virgos’ are known for their love of perfection, and if their fling isn’t just that, they’ll let you know pretty quickly on in the situationship. When a Virgo man is serious about you will go out of his way to assist you to be your best self. Does he help you with a work projects or even just do the dishes after you’ve cooked? Yep, you’re more than just a fling – you’re a fixture in his life.
The Libra man is all about keeping balance and harmony in his life, and if he’s thinking about taking his relationship to the next level, his questioning may seem intense at points, but when he’s including your opinion on even the smallest little details, is when you’re in his life, for life.
Congrats on making it this far to question if your relationship is ready to go to the next level with our mysterious Scorpio men. (Kidding…kind of.) Scorpios guard their hearts like precious treasures, but if he’s letting you in, revealing the hidden depths of his soul, you can bet your saucy self that you’re more than just a fleeting flame. You’re becoming the irresistible fire that consumes him.
The first step of holding a Sagittarius man down is getting him to sit in one place long enough for your relationship to grow from more than an occasional “wyd” DM. A Sagittarius loves freedom and is always on the lookout for the next great adventure. If he wants you by his side for these escapades, it means he sees you as a fellow explorer in his journey of life and love and not just a temporary buddy he found along his travels.
Capricorn men have success on their mind, at all times. Keeping his attention long enough between meetings is only one part of the puzzle. His greatest aspirations and goals, will have you in it – and he will make it clear. He wants to share his wealth of knowledge, and commitment with a woman who will understand his passions, and see that the sky truly is the limit with the ambition he holds.
Getting single word texts would be your first red flag from an Aquarius man if he really wasn’t that into you. When he goes on random tirades about his hobbies, and dreams is how you know he’s not just looking for a quick romp. He craves a mental and emotional connection that transcends the physical realm. When an Aquarius shares his thoughts, dreams, and passions with you, you’re more than just a passing fancy. You’re his intellectual equal, and his mind mate (or better half.)
Pisces long for a profound connection, an bond that transcends the ordinary. When he allows you to see the depths of his emotions and trusts you with his vulnerabilities, it’s a sign that he sees you as his soulmate, not just a temporary fling. They feel deeply, and their emotions can ebb and flow like the tides. Sometimes they may retreat into their own inner world, seeking solace in solitude or artistic pursuits. Fear not, because when a Pisces man chooses you, he’s entrusting you with his vulnerable soul, inviting you to be a part of his dreams and fantasies