Some zodiacs are confident about their partner and their relationship as a whole. But other signs are naturally more cautious and skeptical. They have a harder time accepting that the relationship is healthy and their partner has their best interest at heart. Here are a few zodiacs who have a lot of doubts, even when they’re in relationships that are going well:
Aries, you aren’t afraid to fall in love, but that doesn’t mean that you’re entirely comfortable in relationships. To be completely honest, they scare the crap out of you. You’re terrified of getting hurt. You’re terrified of falling for the wrong person and looking like a fool. But you never let your fear stop you from pursuing what you want. You never let your doubts get in the way of getting to know someone special. You are always going to risk a broken heart, even though you’re secretly swimming with doubts about whether this will all work out in the end.
Gemini, you don’t want to get too attached to the wrong person because you’re worried about getting your heart broken — or breaking this person’s heart. You don’t want to experience pain or cause pain, and you understand that most of the time, relationships end with pain. Unless you’re going to marry this person, you’re probably going to end up hurting each other’s feelings in some way, even if it’s unintentional, and that’s the last thing you want. Even though it’s natural to fear endings, you can’t allow your doubts to stop you from forming beginnings. You can’t avoid love forever because you’re scared of the potential negatives. There are positives too. There is so much beauty in falling in love, and you shouldn’t forget that.
Cancer, you are a sensitive sign, so whenever the smallest thing goes wrong, you assume that the problem is much bigger than it is in reality. You jump to the worst-case scenario and worry that every problem could cause the end of the relationship. It’s hard for you to relax, even when everything is going smoothly, because you’re so scared of losing this person. You’re scared that all of the good times are suddenly going to disappear. But you need to learn to enjoy the moment more. You don’t want to be worried about imaginary problems in an imaginary future when the present is so beautiful. You deserve this. So enjoy it.
Scorpio, your pessimism makes it hard for you to see what’s right in front of you. You always think that something horrible is waiting around the corner, which is simply not true. Technically, if you wait long enough, then something will eventually go wrong, but that doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t let yourself enjoy a good thing. Relationships are scary, but they are also beautiful. You need to stop worrying about getting hurt by someone who has shown you nothing but kindness and respect. Yes, it’s good to stay cautious with your heart, but don’t assume new people are going to hurt you like past people. It’s not fair to them and it’s not fair to you.