Some zodiacs are able to bounce back from failure without a problem. They don’t let their setbacks get to them because they know that their failures don’t define them. They know they have what it takes to succeed in the end. But other signs aren’t able to cope with failure so smoothly. They start doubting themselves whenever they make even the smallest mistakes. Here are some signs who are the most impacted by failure:
You’re a perfectionist, which is why it’s hard for you to put yourself out there. You never want to make an attempt at achieving a goal unless you’re one thousand percent prepared. After all, you want to look like you have it all together. You’re embarrassed to let anyone see you fall short. You feel like failure is the end of the world, but really, you can always try again. There’s nothing wrong with failing because it’s a chance to learn and grow. This doesn’t have to be the end of your journey. This doesn’t have to be the worst thing to ever happen to you. It could be a learning experience. It could only be a bump along the road.
Scorpio, since you’re such a pessimist, failure makes you feel like your doubts about yourself are valid. It makes you feel like you shouldn’t even try because you’re never going to get what you want anyway. But that’s not true. There have been plenty of times when you’re succeeded in the past, but your brain prefers to dwell on the bad things. You can list out all of your failures off the top of your head, but it would take you much longer to count the successes. But there are plenty of successes. You need to remember your own worth. Remember you have what it takes to succeed. One failure doesn’t make you a failure as a person. Everyone fails. What matters more is how you handle the aftermath.
You take everything personally because you have a big, soft heart. So when you fail, it’s hard for you to stop thinking about every little thing you’ve done wrong. It’s hard to pick yourself up and move on. But it’s possible. Remember, failure isn’t always about you. Sometimes success requires luck. It requires the right timing. It might have nothing to do with you at all. And if it does have something to do with you, that means change is within your power. It means you can keep working toward what you want. Next time, you’ll come closer. Next time, you’ll get it.
You aren’t going to back down after one failure because you are confident you have what it takes to succeed — but that doesn’t mean that failure is easy on you. It’s actually pretty damn horrible. You can’t stand knowing that you put in one hundred percent of your effort and still came up short. You can’t stand feeling like you aren’t good enough. Deep down, you know that those doubts are only temporary. You know that feeling of inadequacy is going to fade away. You know that you’re a badass, and failure won’t ever change that. But in the moment, it’s hard to stomach failure. It feels like everything you’ve worked for has been for nothing.