Zodiac Signs

These are the 4 zodiac signs that have the most difficulty loving yourself

1. Virgin

Virgins are known to be critical of others, but they are even more critical of themselves. They always try to fix things that go wrong, and sometimes this can mean that they try to find problems in the first place. They often have a high standard that is not always realistic, so if they fail to do so, they feel like they are failing all the time.

They like to be in control of things that happen to them and will be held responsible for things that are beyond their control, even though they logically recognize that there is nothing they could have done.

How to help: If you have a virgin in your life, assure her that although not everything is under her control, that is not a reflection of her. Encourage them to pursue a goal – not in a cheesy way, but let them know that you know when they are doing something well.

If she starts to gossip about how bad things are going, let her talk about it, but don’t hesitate to remind her of the good too. A virgin does everything she can to make things as good as possible, but also encourage her that it is okay to rest and sometimes take a break.


Like virgins, ibex like to have control over everything around them. They are very eager and hard-working, but they often go beyond their limits. They usually align their self-esteem with being successful in all areas of life and if it doesn’t seem to be going so well in one area, they find it difficult to think well about themselves.

They value their performance and adhere to a very high standard. They also tend to rely on the more pessimistic side to avoid disappointment, but this often leads to a negative view of themselves and the good things that happen to them.

How to help: If you have an ibex in your life, notice its accomplishments, but also let it know what you like about it that is not necessarily tied to these things. Capricorn does not ask for help and he hates the thought that he will ever need it, but you should still show him that if he ever needs anything you will be close – that can work wonders for him.

Remind him that he is more than his success. Support him and don’t add oil to the fire. Motivate him to take a break now and then and that he is not weak because of that.

3. Scorpio

Scorpions tend to have trust problems, which is very difficult. Even though they usually claim that they can only rely on themselves and exude a lot of trust, their lack of trust in others reflects a lack of trust in themselves.

They confront people when they do something questionable, but secretly ask themselves if they are the reason why it actually happened. It is important to him that people take responsibility if they have done something bad, but they do not have to do it themselves.

You are a great man of hype for others, but they rarely treat the same. They hold up walls to prevent anyone from getting to know them, and even believe the lie that nobody can ever really love them as they are.

How to help: If you have a scorpion in your life, you need a lot of patience here. A scorpion can take a long time to open to someone, and even then they are still very careful. Sometimes they will pounce on you, but you just have to remind them that you don’t want to hurt them, but that you care a lot about them and want to be there for them – just be ready to actually be there.

Encourage him whenever he feels vulnerable. Remind him of how great he is and what you think and feel about him.

4. Fish

Fish are for everyone else, except for themselves. They tend to think that their problems and feelings are not as important as those of others. While this can make them a selfless friend, it can soon lead them to withdraw and fear that even their presence is a burden for those who love them.

They often tend to partner and friends who are very exuberant in their praise and affection and see this as proof that they are worth being around. While this is not a bad thing, it can lead to the fish becoming dependent on these people instead of learning to give themselves something.

How to help: If you have a fish in your life, pay attention to the signals it gives. If they seem to be having a bad day, encourage them to talk to you about it. If they try to ignore things, carefully remind them that you are behind them and that what you have to say is important to you.

Listen to them and offer your support. Often remind them of what you really like about them, not just on the surface.

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